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help me heather tackles your differences		• my family doesn't want me to date black guys. what should i do? • i want to study music or art in college, but my parents aren't supportive. • i feel guilty after my boyfriend and i fool around. • i've lost all motivation to study. what should i do? • my friend lied and told everyone she had a brain tumor. why did she did she lie? • i'm worried about kissing with braces. help! • my father is a druggie and he refuses to get help. what can i do? • he doesn't want a serious relationship because i'm not religious. what should i do? • my boyfriend is very into porn and i'm disgusted. what should i do? • i have a boyfriend but i often fantasize about women. am i lesbian? • i don't know how to deal with racist people. • two of my guy friends touched me inappropriately. now i hate being touched by anyone. is this normal? • i'm interested in giving advice as a job, like you. how can i start? • i have problems being confident around guys i like. • i hide my southern accent so my friends don't make fun of me. • more advice from help me heather about being yourself

get the facts on this incurable disorder.		• home schooling • tourettes • sweating • disability • registering to vote • bisexuality • virginity • organic food • breaking the law • clitoris

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a gURL slideshow: sunglasses.		• style yourself: neon • style yourself: leopard • fyi: death • do your thing: personalize your slip-on sneakers • fyi: anxiety disorders • slideshow: top 10 happiness • slideshow: sunglasses • slideshow: do your thing: knee socks • gURL guide to outdoor jobs • gURL guide to singing • do your thing: personalize your prom dress • slideshow: 25 ways to save the earth • fyi: therapy • gURL guide to having a car • fyi: stds and stis • timeline: kissing • timeline: gay rights • timeline: tattoos • timeline: women's underwear • timeline: dating in America • gURL guide to organizing an art show • gURL guide to putting on a rock show


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who is your inner devi? take the quiz.		• flower symbolism quiz • devi indian goddess quiz • funny gURLs • trivia quiz: happiness • lover boy romantic personality quiz • what's your sixth sense? • sex trivia quiz: libido • trivia quiz: poverty • trivia quiz: lady killers • trivia quiz: diet extremes • trivia quiz: guy beauty extremes • quiz: shakespearean romance • love stories: a trivia quiz • the write stuff: a handwriting personality quiz • what's your love token?

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alise has a new look for the dance... what will aj think? read the weekly comic.		• crush (the comic you control) part 12 THE FINALE! • crush, part 11 (the comic you control) • crush, part 10 (the comic you control) • roommates • crush, part 9 (the comic you control) • crush, part 8 (the comic you control) • crush, part 7 (the comic you control) • crush, part 6 (the comic you control) • crush, part 5 (the comic you control) • a boy's perspective: the high school rock band • chubby cheeks • crush, part 4 (the comic you control) • a boy's perspective: mega-crush (the conclusion) • crush, part 3 (the comic you control) • a boy's perspective: mega-crush

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first love lost: a gURL story		• from russia with love • my failed attempts at religion • bring it on: a true cheerleading story • my failed attempts at masturbation • my failed attempts at college dating • first period • class participation • sister dearest: a halloween candy story • camp triangle • invasion of the beauty dispatchers • stuffed guys • first love lost • afro • small tales • summer jobs

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take polls about being yourself!		• have you ever talked on the phone until sunrise? • do you sleep in your bra? • have you ever snuck into a movie without paying? • do people call you by your last name? • would you make out with your best friend? • is imitation the sincerest form of flattery? • do you fight with your parent(s) in public? • do you ever wish you had different friends? • do you believe in sisters before misters? • have you ever returned something after wearing it? • have you ever felt guilty after doing something sexual? • do you like the smell of permanent markers? • how often do you wash your hair? • do you and your parent(s) share the same religion? • more polls about being yourself

what you think: gURLs on body hair.		• if you had a million dollars... • moms • emo • trust • your ideal mate • secrets • cheating • fear • peer pressure • best friends • making out • abortion • fate • beauty • body hair

more dig or disses about being you!		• secret admirers • corned beef and cabbage • lip tattoos • keeping a blog • playing hard to get • meeting new people • starbucks • holding hands • "juno" • spending time with family • bacon • cuddling • chai tea • stretch marks • pumpkin flavored food • more dig or disses about being yourself

make a zine! jetset video shows you how.		• What do you think of these beauty tips from the Ford modeling agency? • can a reality tv show reduce your stress? • what do you think of the documentary, "fahrenheit 9/11"? • should the media publish photos of iraqi prisoner abuse? • do you agree with this psa about self-esteem?

give and get advice from gURLs!		• my boyfriend said if i want him to remember me i should have sex with him. • my mom doesn't believe that i'm bi. how can i convince her that this isn't a phase? • my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen. • i have a hard time finding clothes that fit. where should i shop? • does your first time always have to be with someone you love? • i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do? • my parents don't support my vegetarianism. what can i do? • i'm really self-conscious of this huge birthmark on the back of my leg. • my boyfriend's best friend is a girl he used to have a crush on. • my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore. • i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how to tell him. should i wait for him to say it first? • i've been depressed lately. has anyone ever been to therapy? • my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone? • my boyfriend doesn't do anything special for me. i just want to feel more love... • i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

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