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Don't choose a side
The SAME THING happened to me, like a year ago, and the best thing to do is not do nothing at all! They both want you to choose a side, but you are friends with both. When I chose a side, one of them was against me. I had to change sides several times and no one was happy, especially me. So, stay out of the problem. You can listen to both, but don't let their opinion influence you. They will get over it with time...
--Posted by beautifullybroken
11:15PM EST 12/14/05
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Give it to them straight!
They are being TOTALLY immature and selfish. I think you should say those exact words to them, and add, "I thought you respected me much more than this. If you were really my friends you wouldn't treat me this way". It's harsh, but it's true.
--Posted by martinamartina
02:29PM EST 12/13/05
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Here's what I would do
I think that if the occasion ever occurs where both of your friends want to hang out with you, then you should invite both of them to wherever you wanna go (but don't tell them the other one is coming). Then don't show up or show up late then explain to them that you don't appreciate them playing tug of war with you and your emotions. I hope everthing works out.
--Posted by im2sexy08
10:14AM EST 12/13/05
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The smartest thing to do is not get involved. If you get involved, you could wind up losing two important friends. Instead, let the two of them work it out themselves. Ask someone, (mom, dad, counselor) if they can help you with this situation. Don't spread rumors or anything...just act like nothing is going on and don't say anything. Or else it will all fire back at you.
--Posted by pixie_dust
08:45PM EST 12/12/05
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Toughie
They can't expect you to just drop one of them. They didn't do anything to you so you shouldn't not talk to them. Just explain that this is their problem and to just leave you out of it.
--Posted by salley
07:13PM EST 12/10/05
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Leaving them to solve their problems ain't gonna work. Unfortunately there is no way out of this. I was in your same situation a month ago. A month ago I had two best friends--now I only have one.
--Posted by beautifulimage
01:21PM EST 12/10/05
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I think you should just leave your two friends alone until they solve their own problems. You can't make them friends again. So just leave it alone...trust me.
--Posted by babii-69
10:37AM EST 12/09/05
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You can't MAKE them be friends again, but you can hang out with them both. If one tells you not to see the other person, tell them that they are supposed to be a friend, and you like your friends for who they are, not who they hang out with. Then say, you don't like being involved in their fights, because it hurts you as much as it hurts them.
It's not your fight, and there's no reason for you to feel like it's your duty to fix things, because you can't. Just be honest, loyal and don't pick sides because these things eventually blow over. How you handle it now decides whether or not you have both those friends a year from now.
--Posted by famouspennylane6
09:07AM EST 12/09/05
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