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my bf's black--he won't tell people at school about us

does my tomboy style drive him away?

my boyfriend's ex still likes him

she has a crush on me

how do you get over someone?

we like the same guy

she only talks about her boyfriend

i'm white, but i'm dating a black guy

french kissing is gross...

i'm the other woman...

moody boyfriend...

we start dating, i lose interest...

i'm crushing on my gay friend...

my friend's boyfriend likes me...

i'm in love with two people...

if a guy asks me to dance, how do i say no?

i like him but he's a player...

i think my boyfriend's cheating...

mom thinks my homecoming date is ugly...

we're friends with benefits but i love him

i like my friend's boyfriend.

what should i get my bf for xmas?

my bf got another girl pregnant...

he asked another girl to prom.

my boyfriend isn't cute.

is he flirting or making fun of me?

i really like my best friend

my boyfriend wants to read my diary

my boyfriend never calls me

i'm 16 and i've NEVER had a boyfriend

how do you stay friends?

my boyfriend only wants to hang out with his friends...

i am tired of being single...

he really has changed but nobody else sees it...

he says if i loved him i would have sex...

i'm scared he's cheating on me.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

i am in love with my best friend's boyfriend.

my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me in public.

i don't have the same feelings for him anymore.

should i make a move on my crush?

how do I know if i'm in love?

my friend doesn't know i like her brother.

my boyfriend has a problem with overweight girls.

my boyfriend's family is extremely poor.

my boyfriend is ready to have sex but i'm not.

he's been talking to his ex-girlfriend.

why are guys only interested in non-opinionated girls?

my boyfriend doesn't trust me.

i'm 16 and engaged.

my best friend and my boyfriend can't stand one another.

i like someone two years younger than me.

my boyfriend is really moody and takes his anger out on me.

i think my boyfriend's best friend is trying to break us up.

how can i stop being unfaithful and stick with one guy?

i'm a christian but my boyfriend doesn't even believe in god.

what are the pros and cons of waiting to have sex?

how do i gain back my boyfriend's trust?

i am in love with my brother's best friend.

i like this guy, but he's four years older than me and lives 600 miles away.

my boyfriend's going to college and i'm worried about our relationship.

i really like this guy but he has a baby.

my boyfriend tells his best friend EVERYTHING about our relationship.

my boyfriend never wants to hang out with just me.

my boyfriend's best friend is a girl. they spend a lot of time together and i hate it.

i'm dating this guy that everyone says has an STD. how can i be sure that he's clean?

my crush only sees me as a little kid. how can i get him to notice me?

my boyfriend cheated on me and i can't get over it.

i don't have feelings for my boyfriend. should i end the relationship?

i don't believe in premarital sex but the guys i like don't share the same beliefs. what should i do?

my boyfriend gets mad at me when i talk or hang out with my guy friends. what should i do?

my boyfriend doesn't do anything special for me. i just want to feel more love...

i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how to tell him. should i wait for him to say it first?

my boyfriend is going to his ex-girlfriend's birthday party. i'm afraid they'll make a drunken mistake.

the butterflies i used to get around my boyfriend have gone away. is this a bad sign?

how do i break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?

my boyfriend is moving way too slow. how can i speed things up?

my boyfriend refuses to meet my parents and now my family dislikes him.

my boyfriend said if i want him to remember me i should have sex with him.

my boyfriend has been mean to me ever since his grandfather died.

i want my girlfriend to tell her parents she's gay.

my boyfriend's mom wants me to go on birth control, but i don't think i want to.

my boyfriend wants to take a break because i don't believe in god.


This guy at my church that also goes to my school asked me to homecoming. He's really sweet and funny, but my mom saw him, and thinks that he's ugly. She says she's afraid that going to the dance with him as FRIENDS will ruin my already non-existent reputation. He's actually really popular, and he's such a nice guy. I really want to go with him, but I can't seem to persuade my mom. I was thinking about having her meet him, so she will have something other to judge him by than his looks. What do you all think I should do?

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    you are obviously more reasonable than your mom
    It seems like your mom is a little insecure...
    --Posted by martinamartina
    10:12AM EST 10/21/04


    
    follow your heart
    Your mom really should support your decision because there's no such thing as the perfect guy and if he's as sweet and nice as you say he is then to me that's as perfect as he's gonna get.
    --Posted by thickthighs2k5
    09:47PM EST 10/20/04


    
    advice...
    I think your mom should grow up a little and think about what she's teaching you, by judging someone by their looks and popularity and reputations. It made me quite angry when i read your question.
    --Posted by weedy_mcpunk69
    06:19PM EST 10/20/04


    
    GOOOOO
    There is this guy who asked me out last year and I turned him down because people made fun of him, but he didn't know and the truth is I really liked him and I still do. But he won't ask me out because he thinks I don't like him. Girl, don't make the same mistake I made. Trust me, you will regret it.
    --Posted by jonnquinna
    05:24PM EST 10/20/04


    
    Same here
    The kid that asked me asked me last year [wasn't cute]. I stood him up because my friends made fun of me. He isn't the most popular person, but he was SO nice and sweet... I feel bad for what I did last year. But definitely go with him and tell your mom he isn't a jerk...and that even though he isn't the hottest guy out there that he is a great guy that will treat you right.
    --Posted by fallinangelXlx
    10:49AM EST 10/20/04



    
    Your mom?
    I think your mom is acting more like a child than you are. Why does she care so much about your homecoming date? ... Maybe and hopefully she was only joking with you and made you notice some insecurities you were having...
    --Posted by gcngurl2004
    01:15AM EST 10/20/04


    
    who cares? i dealt with it!!
    I was soo super nervous about my boyfriend/homecoming date meeting my mom, dad, dad's girlfriend and all my friends 'cause I was afraid they would not approve based solely on his looks. But I just started not caring what people thought and I was so much happier. Now if some one says my boyfriend is ugly I'm like ,"He's so nice and funny and great and if you can't see that then your the one missing out!!"
    --Posted by smmerblonde08
    09:28PM EST 10/19/04


    
    Me too
    I have the same dilemma but my guy is sweet and nice looking. My friends are the problem. Who cares what they say? As long as he isn't a creep to you! Have fun!
    --Posted by lynlyn240
    08:32PM EST 10/18/04


    
    your choice
    Your mom should be supporting you, not judging him. ... Don't our moms always say, "It's what's on the inside that counts."
    --Posted by roxylove078
    08:19PM EST 10/18/04

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