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i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

how can i show him that he's being racist?

i am a perpetual liar...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

my two best friends don't get along

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

my friend is the biggest flirt.

My friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

my friend's stealing my stuff

me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

My friend is competing with me

my best friend has a new best friend

my friends tease me for being skinny

my friend thinks i'm the girl of his dreams

both sides want me to choose between them

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

all my friend talks about is her new guy

my friend's mom keeps interfering in our business

my friend makes rude comments about my weight

my friend's a perfectionist

my friends are playing tug-of-war with me!

i want people to stop making fun of me...

she's saying things behind my back...

cheap and thoughtful bday present ideas?

i feel like i'm losing my best friend...

my friend's step-dad just died...

i think she's interested in me...

my best friend's mom hates me.

my friend is very homophobic.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

my best friend is in love with a complete loser.

what makes a good best friend?

my best friend is slowly changing.

my friend is constantly putting me down.

i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

my best friend's mom thinks i'm a TOTAL druggie!

my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

my best friend slept with my other best friend's boyfriend.

I'm noticing annoying things about my best friend that never used to be annoying before.

i don't think i'll have any friends when i go back to school

i don't trust my best friend's boyfriend.

i told my friend i'm bisexual; now she's acting different around me.

i received an email from an old friend who hasn't spoken to me in years.

i'm starting to like my friend but he's gay. what should i do?

i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone?

my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore.

i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do?

my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen.

my best friend wants to read my diary. how do i keep my private writing private?

my friend just told me she has cancer, but she won't talk about it.

i made out with my best friend and now i feel awkward around her.

my friend got jumped and i want to get back at the girl who did it.

my friend's boyfriend broke up with her for my other friend and i'm stuck in the middle.

i made a comment about barack obama and now my friend thinks i'm racist.


This guy at school makes fun of Asians. He says they're stupid and that they don't belong in America. He also says that their eyes are the ugliest eyes in the world. I told him that he shouldn't feel that way or say those things, but he won't listen. How can I show him that he's being racist?

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    demand that he listens
    You need to sit him down and force him to listen to what you have to say. Because racism isn't a joke. And if he doesn't listen to you, just ditch the loser.
    --Posted by DivaBling
    01:18PM EST 06/23/04


    
    Ask him why
    Ask him why he feels this way. This usually throws any discriminator off. If he replies with something rude like, "They aren't from here," you should point out that unless he's full blooded Native American(which is highly unlikely), he also has had family immigrate to this country. All Americans are Americans, regardless of their race or ethnicity. Everyone has a right to live in the United States and if he's so shallow and ignorant he can't accept that, then he will have some major problems when he hits the real world.
    --Posted by darkserenity
    09:48PM EST 06/22/04


    
    tell him off
    Gurl you definitely need to tell him how he's acting and what he is for saying that. Give him a taste of his own medicine. Tell him what you think and MAKE him listen.
    --Posted by artsychick458
    07:31AM EST 06/22/04

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